The Fear of Being Dangerous

If you’ve been following my emails, you know that I talk a lot about the belief-based identities we create for ourselves. I believe we need to understand those identities to rise above our wounds.After all, those same wounds gave us our false identities in the first...
Are You Waiting to Be Fully Baked?

Are You Waiting to Be Fully Baked?

We all worry about how others see us, at least to some degree. Which is why we can struggle to present ourselves in the “right way”.And it’s why most of us are afraid to go out into the world before we’re “fully baked”. If we’re raw, people might see what’s wrong with...
Do You Know Who You’re Talking to?

Do You Know Who You’re Talking to?

It’s frustrating to have a business that’s not going anywhere. No matter what you do, nothing seems to work. People don’t care, and your audience doesn’t respond to your message.When this happens, questions start running through your head. You begin to wonder what...
Dealing with Your Need to Belong

Dealing with Your Need to Belong

In my last message, I explained why you might feel like a fraud sometimes. This can happen when your need for belonging makes you filter your message. And then you lose touch with its core along the way.Have you ever felt like this? If so, you’ve probably spent a lot...
What to Do When You Feel Like a Fraud

What to Do When You Feel Like a Fraud

Almost all messengers have been there – developing that poisonous feeling like you’re a fraud. Your self-doubt gets on top of you.It makes you feel bad about putting your message out there.If a messenger doesn’t believe in the message that they’re sending, how can...
The “What” and the “Who”

The “What” and the “Who”

Whenever you deliver a ground-breaking message, you have to face your fears. Messengers who’ve been through this know what I’m talking about. And they know it’s a tough thing to do. How do you get people to listen when you’re so engulfed in fear?Luckily, you can...